This Is In Or Around Pretension

The Craigslist “Casual Encounters” section, from what we are given to understand, is for just that: ads for anonymous sex. But in A2, even casual encounters are meaningful. This one that was recently brought to our attention (probably not safe for work) at least starts out pretty much as you’d expect. “Don�t ask me my name. Don’t ask me where I work. Don’t ask if I’m married or have a girlfriend.” Sure, fair enough. “Ask me if we have free will.” Um, okay, if you get off on that sort of thing.

But most importantly, “I’ve never set foot in a Wal-Mart.” Is this the Ann Arbor equivalent of “drug and disease free”?

37 Responses to “This Is In Or Around Pretension”


  1. This is one of many things I don’t like about Ann Arbor. From the men seeking women section of CL.


  2. I wonder why he hasn’t been snapped up yet. What brilliant 30-something woman can resist a plump 50ish man with subclinical Asperger’s syndrome?


  3. wow, I think I know that guy (honestly).


  4. “Brains, I want brains.”

    Maybe he’s a zombie looking for lunch.


  5. He could have been talking about me if he had 11 January as the birthdate…except I would never talk on the phone while some guy was going down on me.


  6. Ann Arbor Sex-ay!
    He’s just watching O’Reilly yell at him. Think he’d be up for a falafel fuck?
    Businessman seeks whore, undergrad
    Virgin seeks love on ‘net.
    Let me jerk off at your place because my Mom can hear me at home.
    Hey whores!
    “Any age, but an active woman is better” says another Ann Arbor virgin. Yeah, the active ones beat the dead ones, I hear.
    Pay for preggo

    And here all of you are complaining about how hard it is to meet people in Ann Arbor. Not only can you meet them, but they’ll pay to fuck you! And wow, they’re all “devestatingly gorgeous” “Wall Street type”s.
    The saddest ones are the five posts in two weeks from the Asian virgin. Y’know, there are women that you can meet off the web too…


  7. “Y’know, there are women that you can meet off the web too…”

    McNichols and the Cass Corridor are ideal spots for someone with that problem…so I’ve heard.


  8. Okay, the zombie thing was hilarious.

    Are there really that many undergrad whores in A2? And how come there aren’t any ads for cute college boys in need of financial assistance, from either women or gay men?


  9. And does anyone who’s NOT on CL still call undergraduates “co-eds”?


  10. Uh, I used to live in Cass Corridor (the area of Detroit along Cass Avenue, from the Fisher to the Lodge freeways, bounded by Woodward Avenue and Lodge Expressway), and its reputation as a red-light and drug district is WAY out of date.

    Anderson’s Garden, Cass Corridor’s last prostitution bar, was shut down decades ago, driven out by upscale neighbors. Among other tactics, nearby homeowners recorded the license plate numbers of the johns who parked cars on their street, looked up the owner’s name and address (back in the 70s, anybody could do that for $4 each), and mailed out postcards saying “Thank you for visiting Historic West Canfield…”

    The northern third of Cass Corridor is now the Wayne State University campus; the middle third is largely student housing and yuppie/guppie homeowners; and the southern third, apart from Orchestra Hall, the Masonic Temple, and vast tracts of vacant land, seems to be populated by alcoholic old men in shabby rooming houses or subsidized apartments.

    Moreover, most of the Corridor is patrolled and surveilled by the Wayne State University police, with video cameras on nearly every light post, so the rate of street crime is probably lower than Ann Arbor’s.

    Please update your stereotypes!


  11. Sadly, some newspapers seem to have missed the memo about “co-ed.”


  12. Larry, what about the garage rockers? Have they no home?


  13. I think the garage rockers live in Hamtramck.


  14. In the tradition of “sorostitute,” why don’t we say “ho-ed”?

    Ok, I thought it was kinda funny.


  15. Since the closest Wal-Mart is in Ypsilanti (although I think technically Pittsfield Township), “Never set foot in Wal-Mart” is the equivalent of “I’ve never been east of US-23″ since some people from Ann Arbor seem to view Ypsi as the dirty cousin or something.

    I like the Engineer want ad though. Pretty funny.


  16. Well, nothing’s worse than meeting someone on the Internet for anonymous sex, only to find out that they don’t even support local businesses.


  17. Or finding out they don’t have free will.


  18. I like how his definition of “having brains” is all math and engineering. There are many women with brains who couldn’t give a rat’s ass about the special theory of relativity or logistic regression (and logistic regression is lame anyway), but could argue you into a hole about whether there are autonomous spaces within the power/knowledge matrix or whether or not it’s possible to make a synchronic intervention in language.

    Also, I find that whole “sororistute” thing totally offensive. Sure there are a lot of sorority sluts, but if you ask me, that frat boys equally represent as whores.

    The zombie comment was hella funny though.


  19. I specialize in totally offensive. Agree about frat boys, though. I made a rude comment about them on another blog.


  20. Sorry, Larry, but I must respectfully disagree with you on Cass Corridor. Being as I’ve actually been through there several times, I didn’t see as much of a police presence as you mentioned and I saw far too many unsavory characters for my tastes. Regardless, even if the prostitution has been cleaned up, I’m sure someone desperate enough can find someone in CC that would solve them of their virginity problem.

    However, there are certainly worse places (now) in Detroit. McNichols and Davison come to mind.


  21. Alex(andra), my favorite part was, “You don’t have to get even one of these EXACTLY right - but they’re all at the edge of what I think about and talk about….I’m the kind of guy for whom those questions … are matters of casual conversation…”

    I’m sorry, but who the hell sits around blabbing about logistic regression (not getting it EXACTLY right)? Beside, if he has to use logistic regression, chances are he didn’t do his experiment properly.


  22. What do you prefer–categorical, logit? Enquiring minds want to know!


  23. “Beside, if he has to use logistic regression, chances are he didn’t do his experiment properly.”

    Anna, you should write and tell him that - he’ll be swept off his feet.


  24. People who don’t live in Detroit tend not to recognize its granularity. Some assume that “Cass Corridor” is the vast region between downtown and Grand Boulevard, or even beyond. It just isn’t so. Cass Corridor is a small, defined area. All those other (and much worse-off) parts of town have their own names.

    If you consider elderly derelicts who sit on curbs with bottles of hooch in paper bags to be unsavory, well, the south end of Cass Corridor still has plenty of those. But they’re harmless.

    Cass Corridor also has a food co-op (founded in 1972 and still going strong) and a thriving community of artists and musicians.

    The police presence may not always be obvious. Just look up at the light poles, and smile at the camera.


  25. Don’t knock logistic regression, biatch. As a social scientist I use it all the time to make results look real that aren’t and results that aren’t look real. It’s a little game I play in my office with my bitch Stata.


  26. I like the Cass Corridor/Midtown/Cultural Center area, personally. If I ever move to Detroit, it’s where I’d settle. Hamtramck is pretty tempting beyond (within) the city limits otherwise, though. I guess Corktown is alright, too. And Mexicantown is actually pretty dang awesome, but I don’t know how easy living in a mostly immigrant neighborhood would be as an outsider.


  27. Alex — Actually, anything I can’t do with ANOVA means I screwed up somewhere.


  28. The sad thing is, even though I am a perfectly normal human being, I know this guy gets more in the way of responses than I do.

    Honestly, I’d like to say, “Hahaha, I’m joking” but I know I’m not.


  29. Larry, I’d been through Cass Corridor before–I used to go to Zoot’s, Cass Cafe, The Gold Dollar, The Old Miami, Alvin’s and the like, and I also thought Cass Corridor’s reputation was undeserved.

    I know a couple guys on a Cass Corridor Neighborhood Development Corp. I was walking down the block with one of them recently and had some real eye-openers. “See that guy riding his bike real slow? No one rides a bike that slow. He wants to sell you drugs. Don’t make eye contact or he’ll think you want some and then get pissed off if you don’t. See that guy driving real slow? Same thing. See that woman over there? She always wants to know what time it is. See that guy on the balcony up there? Someone is always there. Folks are smoking crack up there, and that’s the lookout.”

    They tell me that it is getting better and that it is improving, but I’m going to disagree with you on Cass Corridor. I’m talking about Forest between 2nd and Woodward. I never lived there, but I have it on good authority. When did you live there? Maybe it changed back!


  30. Dave, maybe you’d do better if you didn’t list “drinking, goatherding, and flatulence” as your first, second, and third (respectively) interests.

    We like Homer Simpson, but none of us wants to date him.


  31. I love ANOVA, but my all-time favorite is crosstabs. Yee haw for descriptive statistics.


  32. Alex(andra), good point. Although I always hoped people would realize I was joking. Still, I probably shouldn’t joke. This *is* Ann Arbor, after all.


  33. Brandon- Mexican Town, outside of the block around Xochi’s, is one of the worst places in Detroit. The freeway/bridge entrance gutted the neighborhood, so now it’s a brief blip of decent space surrounded by an assload of shady shit. The North side of Mexican Town is where you see a guy getting his ass kicked by four others and you don’t slow down to help.


  34. You sure, JS? The main drag of Vernor a bit to the West looks pretty damned healthy. Hardly a vacancy to be found. That’s the “real” Mexicantown, as I understand, while the part around Xochimilcho is more the “tourist” area.


  35. you’re right brandon


  36. I had a friend who lived on Bagley between Clark Park and Xochi’s for two years, and he never had problems. On the other hand he didn’t claim it was uber-safe, just that it was safe enough not to worry too much.
    For those of you with too much spare time and curiosity who are still following this thread, here’s a random map: http://www.visitdetroit.com/linclude/maps/mexicantown.pdf


  37. Chris I used to work on Woodward and Forest (at Hannan), and regularly hung out at restaurants and establishments around Cass Corridor during lunch and even after dark. There were the usual bums and skanks, but I would agree that it is a cool neighborhood- the “Wayne State area” is no longer the crime zone it used to be. I would agree with Larry that it’s actually getting yuppified.